I seem to be having a similar problem (although I cannot see Sharon’s pages to be sure). Our News & Events page is set as the Blog page. The Blog Right Side bar has Search, Recent Posts and Archives widgets. I was just going to change those around and add a custom widget – but found that those widgets are not showing at all. I could have sworn that they used to show.
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