You custom changes to theme will be lost on theme update, where as your customizer setting and widgets will still remains.
Note: Please do back up of your whole site so you can take a action when you lost some useful setting of your site.. Normally we use duplicator plugin to make a backup.https://wordpress.org/plugins/duplicator/.
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